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What the Zahia Dehar Sex Scandal Taught Me About A Celebrities Ability To Attract Women

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Firstly if you have no idea who Zahia Dehar is let me fill you in. This brief overview was taken from a variety of news outlets.

The summer of shame engulfing French football showed no sign of letting up today as two of the country’s top players were detained by police as part of an investigation into an alleged underage prostitution ring.

Franck Ribéry and Karim Benzema were taken to the headquarters of the Paris police’s vice squad this morning for questioning over suspicions they paid for sex with a girl they knew to be below the age of consent.

The investigation, which in April led to a police raid and subsequent closure of a late-night bar on the Champs Elysées, has focused on the claims of Zahia Dehar, a former prostitute, that she had had sex with both players while still underage.

She has insisted, however, that she did not inform either man she was only 16 – two years younger than the age of consent for sex workers in France.

According to police files Zahia, who’s now 18, began working as a prostitute in March 2008. She made up to £20,000 a month sleeping with rich men who would fly her to destinations like Dubai and put her up in five star hotels.

US rapper Ne-Yo spent one night with Zahia Dehar, a few weeks before the Cannes Film festival. Zahia would

have also worked in the cinema, in particular at the time of the Festival of Cannes 2008, whereas she was old only 16 years.

I find it very interesting that men you would ‘assume’ to be able to get any woman they wanted, AKA rich – good looking celebrities and athletes resort to paying for sex from a prostitute.

Don’t get me wrong she’s a very attractive girl but I would have assumed that being famous would entitle men to get any woman they choose without question. This scandal indicates to me that this is clearly not necessarily the case.

This reminds me of a story I read over at Eric from Approach Anxiety‘s blog about when he met the guys in the rock band Buckcherry.

“Yeah!” he responds, “I meet a lot of girls. I get introduced to a lot of girls. We meet plenty of girls. But it’s really hard for me to walk up to a girl I don’t know.”

So even celebrities struggle to approach girls they aren’t introduced to. A big complaint I hear a lot of guys saying is “If I was famous I’d be able to get a really hot girlfriend“. Well evidentially celebrities struggle with women that don’t approach them just as much as you or I.

Also lets face it you’re only a celebrity if she actually knows who you are otherwise you’re a nobody just like everyone else in her eyes. In the end I think we can see that wanting to be a celebrity to get girls is just a fantasy that guys use to keep themselves from talking to girls they find attractive.

So in the end the only question to ask is: Is Zahia Dehar worth paying $1000 per night for? Personally I don’t think any girl is worth paying for so I’m going to say no.

I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic so please feel free to leave a comment below this post. Cheers.

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Posted on July 23rd, 2010

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